I found this at Paula Begoun's website and thought it was interesting.
I Want a New Lipstick Color—Or Do I?
By Bryan Barron, Writing and Editorial Assistant to Paula Begoun
Before I came to work for Paula, I spent several years working for various cosmetic companies, usually at the department store. For the most part, I enjoyed it. I taught myself how to do makeup, and developed a loyal clientele of regulars who requested my advice on what to purchase or how to apply it. But whether I worked at stores in the midwest, south, or northwest United States, one thing was constant: women shopping for a new lipstick routinely gravitated toward colors that were similar if not nearly identical to what was already in their purse or on their vanities.
Here’s how the average scenario went: a woman approaches the counter with determined gusto and surveys the lipstick tester unit. I’d greet her and offer assistance, to which her response is that she’s “looking for a new color”. After a few questions to narrow down her preferences (creamy, matte, sheer, bright or muted colors, etc.) I make some suggestions. Sometimes that worked, sometimes it didn’t. After some frustrating, time-consuming experiences that didn’t result in a sale, I began asking women to show me the lipstick they use most often. It was almost always a pink-brown shade or a nude color. That’s fine, but then why, if you’re shopping for a new color, do you end up choosing something barely different from what they routinely wear? I’d suggest going lighter, darker, more shimmery, pinker, or even trying a red tone, almost always to no avail. I have spoken to many women about this over the years, including those in my family and female friends of various ages. None of them could give me a reasonable explanation for why they shop for a new lipstick color and end up purchasing the same type of shade they’ve always worn. So I have my own theory: the novelty and excitement of shopping for a new lipstick, that one shade that will give you an added boost and make people take notice (for the better) is just too irresistible. It gets women to the cosmetic counter, but when it comes time to select a truly new color, they back down and stick with what’s safe. Perhaps they don’t want to leave feeling they’ve wasted their money (nowadays a department store lipstick can set you back $23 or more, so that concern is completely understandable) or perhaps common sense prevails and they rationalize that what they chose is different enough to work, and hey, they really will wear it. Maybe that’s why free gifts with purchase are so popular: women can spend the qualifying amount on a product they’re certain they like and will use, yet still have the impetuous fun of trying new colors without the financial commitment. As for me, I learned that if I only suggested “new” colors that were slightly different than what the customer typically wore, she’d leave happy—and I’d have my commission and, more than likely, a repeat customer!
Did You Know? According to a survey conducted by Estee Lauder, more than 80% of women own at least one tube of lipstick; Women over the age of 35 use lipstick more frequently than younger women; Paula’s favorite cosmetic lines for those looking for gorgeous red lipsticks include Revlon, Lorac, Vincent Longo, and Trish McEvoy.
I was totally a culprit of this too, and I was in the pink-brown category (though lipgloss, not lipstick). But recently I went out on a limb and tried on Nars lipgloss in Babe- an orange red that gives me shiny cherry popsicle lips. And I LOVE IT. Even my boyfriend, who has never complimented me on any of my makeup specifically, recently told me it looks amazing on me, and he can see why he likes it so much. I'm determined to be more experimental in my lipgloss shopping now!
I'm guilty! I can't tell you how many tubes of pink lip gloss and lip stick I have. They vary in darkness, and some are even toward the peach shade, but I have way, way too many.
I'm terrible at picking out lipstick. I always choose something too light so I usually let the SA pick a color for me and they usually pick something nice. For some reason this spring I decided I really like bright colors so lately I've been wearing red and pink, which I never would've worn before. I probably wouldn't have tried it if an SA who's picked nice colors for me in the past hadn't picked out a red for me. So if there's a SA at a store that you trust let them pick out something adventurous for you. Or wait for a BOGO at the drugstore and get a couple new colors to play with. If you don't like them, at least you won't have spent too much money.
My aunt sells Mary Kay products and my favorite part of Christmas is seeing all the goodies. Almost always it is some form of Lip Gloss. She has given me darker plum colors up to shiny and sheer colors...not too much in the form of pinks though..not sure why. I use to love the darker colors when I was younger because I didn't play up my eyes as much I went for bolder lip colors, but now since I am really playing with my eyes I want less on my lips so I made the switch a few years ago from deep colors to sheer/shimmery fun colors and they fall somewhere in the pink family too...not too pink.
With me and my mum each buying what suits her taste...We should be looking at 25 to life by now :D
I love Rimmel's Lasting finish, it's awesome. I have many coulours (some of which are quite similar to stuff I never knew I had :) Anybody knows its ingredients??
I'm guilty of buying all different shades of red all of the time. My daughter makes fun of me because I'll get the free gifts from Lancome and just give them to her. I like the thought of changing my lip stick color but i'm also more comfortable sticking with something that I know looks good on me. Maybe i'm just old and don't like change haha
A former employer once gave me 6 Clinique lipsticks she had purchased but never used. They were all nearly the same dusky rose shade... in fact, two were identical! About a hundred dollars worth of lipstick that looked exactly like what she always wore, and she gave them away so she could justify buying something new. *sigh* To her credit, she did buy a nice summery, orangey, coral. I've definitely observed this trend, but I can't say I understand it... I just purchased turquoise, lilac, and bright blue lip products. But maybe I should hold my tongue until I see how often I wear them instead of my usual wine shade!
to add, I think in general people stick with what they like and tend to buy similar things that suit their taste. Even with clothes I find I see a blouse in a store and think to myself "Wow that is absolutely stunning, I want that!" then I think more about it and realize, "Oh I already have a blouse that looks almost identical to that!" I am always attracted by the same colors and designs
I don't bother shopping for entirely new colors. I know for a fact that I do not look good in ANY shade of red, so I always ignore that. I don't like brown. I always stick with some shade of pink. Now over at ShainDee they have a lipstick called Dyeceptions - those color changing ones. I got the blue and the black. Blue makes my lips sort of a light purple/darkish pink. Black makes my lips purple/dark pink. The latter I only use on my days off because I personally think darker lipstick shades are more sultry and therefore not library work appropreiate. I sometimes actually use it as a base coat. I put it on, blot, then put another lipstick of a different shade of pink over it. Gives me a "new" color without venturing out of the safety of the colors I look good in.
I mean, if you know for a fact you look good with one paticuliar color why change? I know, for instance, I look good in purple clothing. If I could all my clothing would be some shade of purple.
I also have my favorite "my lips but better" color which I find looks good on me with most all colors in my eyeshadow, blush, and clothes. But, I am too much of a tightwad to buy lipstick in a color that I know I already have. If I want to spend a small amoung of money for a mental lift, I'll buy a new piece of jewelry.
I have found some very different lipstick colors that are flattering by researching on Makeup Alley. I look for colors that get a lot of positive reviews by women who are similiar to me in age and coloring. I found a good brick red and a plum lipstick this way. They don't work with every item of clothing, but with certain colors they are smashing.
I'm guilty of being attracted to the same colors over and over. I don't buy much lipstick, though, because it never seems to stay in the center of my lips and I end up with an awful looking ring around my mouth. *sigh* It might be nice to have color on my lips...
yep, I own dozens of nude lip glosses and lipsticks. They're all different in terms of coverage and shine and whether or not they tend toward pinky and plummy, but there's a hell of a lot of orange. I also own wines, reds, fuschias, pinks, oranges etc but that's because we get tons of free stuff at work and I've rarely bought these (and also rarely wear them).
This is me all the way. I get new ones because I just want a new treat for myself, then I try to justify it by saying it's slightly different from the other ones (and they all are--SLIGHTLY). I have a lot of cool pinks and cool wines.